It’s pretty easy to identify a situation in which a girl is just looking to you for attention, with no plans of actually meeting up with you again or sleeping with you. It’s an article about how to even the playing field when it comes to dating, and how much attention you should be willing to give a girl. Those are terms that are essentially derogatory and are meant more as insults than anything else. This isn’t an article about attention whores or gold diggers. The fact that women ultimately decide when and if sex happens, gives them a tremendous amount of power over the opposite sex.Īgain, we can’t fault them, because if the roles were reversed, we would do the exact same thing. The difference with women is that they know the easiest, cheapest place to get such validation is from a man who wants to sleep with them. Human beings have an innate need for approval and positive reinforcement. That’s why we give trophies and awards for accomplishments, and why people do things like stand-up comedy. It’s not even necessarily a female thing exclusively everyone likes to feel wanted or validated. To a woman, the knowledge that she is wanted by a guy is just as satisfying as sex is for a man. The answer is simple it’s because women view attention the same way men view sex. Now, you’re probably wondering why a girl would invest so much time, effort and time communicating with a guy she has no intention of sleeping with. She might send you dirty text messages, pictures and insist on talking for most of the day, but when it comes to actually meeting for a date or coming over she has an excuse every single time. Let’s say you meet a girl, and she’s very into it, or at least, appears to be, but everytime you try and escalate things to the next level she stops you. This doesn’t just apply to relationships either it applies to dating as a whole. You’d wonder what kind of relationship can function without the sexual component.
If a friend told you that he was dating a girl but they weren’t having sex, you’d look at him like he was crazy.
We want it and usually are in a hurry to get it. As a guy, it’s hard not to measure the progress of a relationship without considering sex.
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